If chocolates and flowers are starting to feel like a stale Valentine's Day routine, it might be time to think outside the box. In the spirit of keeping relationships vibrant and healthy, why not add a dash of playful competition and physical activity to your romantic celebrations? 

Here’s how incorporating play into your relationship can be the perfect recipe for lasting love — and some ideas on how to surprise your partner this Valentine’s Day. 

The Importance of Play in Couple Relationships

Think back to the last time you laughed heartily with your partner or felt a rush of joy and connection. In the hustle of daily life, couples often forget the significance of simply having fun together. Play isn’t just for kids; it’s a vital ingredient in adult relationships too. 

Studies have shown that engaging in playful activities together fosters communication, builds trust, and injects a sense of novelty into your relationship. From reducing stress to improving mental health, the benefits of play are vast and deeply impactful in nurturing a healthy, joyful relationship. 

Best Sports to Play With Your Significant Other

When it comes to strengthening your bond and adding fun to your relationship, few activities can rival the shared experience of sports. 

Participating in a sport together can break the monotony of daily routines, allowing couples to experience excitement, challenge, and even a healthy dose of competition — all while helping you stay physically active. 

Consider checking out: 

  • Pickleball: This fun blend of tennis, badminton, and table tennis is great for all skill levels. It's an enjoyable way to engage in light-hearted competition while also offering a great workout.

  • Tennis: A classic choice for couples, tennis requires both strategy and physical effort, making it perfect for those who enjoy a more active and competitive sport.

  • Golf: Golf can be a relaxing and strategic game that allows for plenty of conversation and a leisurely pace, perfect for couples looking to enjoy a calm day outdoors.

  • Surfing: For the adventurous duo, surfing offers an exhilarating experience. It's not just about the sport; it’s about connecting with nature and each other in a unique setting.

  • Boxing: Want a more intense workout? Boxing can be a great way to release stress and build trust as you learn and practice together.

When choosing the right sport for you and your significant other, consider your mutual interests and fitness levels. Sports like pickleball and golf are great for beginners and offer a more relaxed pace, ideal for those seeking a mix of activity and socialization. On the other hand, activities like surfing and boxing are suited for couples seeking adrenaline and a more intense physical challenge.

Remember, the goal is to have fun and bond, so pick a sport that suits both your personalities.

How to Play Together This Valentine’s Day 

Whether you’re choosing a sport that’s on the court, in the water, or on the greens, the key to any successful Valentine’s Day celebration is creativity, thoughtful planning, and a sprinkle of surprise. 

Here are some ways to play together this Valentine’s Day:

  • Book a private lesson. It’s a great way to personalize the experience and learn something new together, creating a shared memory that's both unique and enjoyable.

  • Find a sports retreat. Plan a weekend getaway focused on a particular sport or activity. This could be a tennis retreat, a hiking adventure, or a pickleball camp.

  • Plan a DIY sports date. Create a personalized sports date, such as a picnic followed by a casual game of pickleball in the park.

Book Your First Couple's Pickleball Class Today!

Ready to challenge the monotony of your daily routines and spice up your relationship with excitement, challenge, and a healthy dose of competition? Book a private couples coaching session and experience the joy of playing together this Valentine’s Day.